so I am still a girlfriend about to be a SM. and the BM doesn't understand she need to respect me. i respect her as her daufhter's mother, but as a person she is stupid and most of the time as a mom shes the same. but she doesn't think i have a say. my Fiance ,the BF, keeps telling her to respect me as part of the kids life. but she thinks my opinions and decisions do not matter. i don't know how to get this through her head. in her house her new husband doesn't want any part of his SD life. But in our house, i do. I have complete say as if i was her mom.

i have to say kids say the darnest thing!! my ss is 3yr. we were in the store shopping and the bm called to talk to him like she usally does when we have him. anyways i guess she ask him what he is doing and if he ate..... and he said yes asia cook..i'm with asia walking we going shopping... then he said i dont want to talk to you i'm going shopping with asia... so i know the bm felt some type of way... then she call my husband thinking accusing someone telling him to say that to her... but noone did// he was on the phone with her himself...

I am STEP mothering a almost 7 year old boy and a almost 4 year old boy my Bson is almost 6. I am new to this and need advise on what to epect as far as behaviors with each other with me and dad my husband

We found out today that BM took my name off SD's school pickup list. So what is her reason for taking my name off? "I don't know her. She's not picking up my child." You don't want to know me you idiot and you have made it perfectly clear for 5.5 years! We have 50% custody so what we do is not your business hooker!

A Dream where-----

---BM has disappeared for at least last 5yrs (preferably hit by a MAC truck---so that all her drama would not have affected SD's and rest of family

My husband and I didn't want my sd to get a cell phone yet but she kept bugging her grandmother for one without our knowledge and the grandmother got her one about 8 months ago. We didn't like it but surrendered to it since she had already gotten it for her and because my sd is in athletics and has to go after school to her games, it was convienent for us that she had a way to get a hold of her when she was out.

Okay I'm out numbered at my house, the only female!! Even the dog is male! DH, SS8 & SS5. So this is meant to be light compared to what is normally discussed. So all 3 of the boys wake up with boners! I thought I'd be equipted to deal with this, as DH doesnt bother me. But seriously a 5 yr old can get a hard on and than he wants to show us. Like look my wee wee grew. OMG! I've never looked at my ceiling more than I do now. I caught SS8 humping a piece of furniture and I turned around and ran, just literally, the other way!!

Have finally told DH that I do not like his 15 year old daughter. Had a big blow up yesterday because she thinks she rules the roost. She has no respect for me or my 3 biological children. She is snotty and I am accused of saying things that really I don't say and for ruining her relationship with her boyfrind (who she has only met 1 time), because I make her turn her cell phone off at 9:00 Sunday thru Friday and for making her get an F in PE because I said she couldn't dry her uniform. During the blowup, I told her she could pack her crap and get out.

Anyone planning to pay for college for bios in your home but not skids (who don't live with you)? Or cars for bios but not steps?

okay...so, i figure a lot of you may know about this, but we are being sued for child support...any advice anyone has as far as whether or not to get a lawyer etc would be really helpful. I'm sure plenty of you have gone through this so hopefully you guys can help. as it is now, we have to pay the court fees...i'm new at all of this so i'm not sure what to think. let me know if anyone has suggestions!