So DH gets a call from BM today asking why there is bruising all around SS8.5's kidneys. She said she didn't notice it, but SS brought it to her attention and told her it was my BS13 who did it...

We moved far away from family and friends.. so we set up a Skype account so that we could stay in touch.

Problem w/Skype, is it tells people the INSTANT you sign online.. so.. what is the big deal w/that???

My skids or the ex or both keep calling anytime I hop on to check MY email. I mean.. its the middle of the FN day, their father is AT WORK, they know it.. yet feel that I should answer all these calls.

I am grateful to this blog because I do not have a lot of people who can understand where I am coming from. Most of my friends or family members do not have step children and my friends do not have teenagers!

Mediation went overwhelmingly in our favor.

The movie Stepmom was on TV the other night and of course I couldn't help but turn it on. It came out in 1998 and has Julia Roberts and Susan Sarandon as the main actresses. I saw the film when it first came out, but it definitely struck a chord with me even more now that I'm a stepmom.

Sometimes I feel like I am so messed up. This morning while nursing BF sprained ankle I was smoothing out the wrap so that it wouldn't curl and catch on his sock (very gently mind you) and he proceeds to ask me why I have to always squeeze his ankle. OMG...that just went all over me. I proceeded to tell him that I am not trying to hurt him and that it really bothers me that he thinks so. I was really upset...could be leftover from the other night or something.

Today was a horrible day...AHOLE DH came home after drinking an at 11PM OUR son says "I'm starving"...Mind you, he does this ALL THE TIME...DH KNOWS how much he eats...but today, you see, DH had a stick up his butt...so he gets angry and starts making our son some hot dogs at 11PM! Mind you, I left at 8PM and went to McDonalds with him and got him an ADULT meal, not a kid's meal...and he ate ALL OF IT...Mind you I cooked Hot Dogs and fries for him at around 4PM when I realized ahole DH was coming home late as he was "networking, ie.

Today I found that DH might actually have a facebook account...It ticks me off to no end because he knows EVERYTHING I have and goes into it, etc...I don't mind...I have NOTHING to hide...on the other hand he's been acting like an ahole lately, especially today...and I keep thinking the whole "you are a loser F U" text from truant did not just come out of nowhere...well, I believe he actually DOES have a facebook acct...

My DH arrived today after having some drinks with friends. To me he had too many, to him he had not. At 8pm I went to Walmart w/my kiddo...we ate at McDonalds and shopped. At 10pm on my way home I call both his cell phones and no answer. I get home and he is asleep.

1)to me if you aré a responsible husband/wife, you always answer your phone if your wife/kids are out, especially at night...anything could happen and my thought is you either stay awake until they arrive home safely or put both phones next to you and answer if they call...or anyone for that matter.

Here is the info...

http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=4897

Basically, the intent is to have both NCP and CP end up with "same amount of income"...nice, huh? So, that would mean that in the NCP household everyone suffers, in the CP household, eveyone enjoys the standard of living of the EX-HUSBAND! pathetic!