I found BM's Psych Evaluation lastnight. It's official and it's on paper that the bitch is crazy.

I just had to share this story.

H told me this past weekend that he is planning to move out in June, maybe sooner. In addition to this, since we have been here before I have learned based on past experience that although I do love my H and am very saddened by all of this, unfortunately I cannot let on to H that I feel this way because he is just too sensitive and will take any positive attention or affection on my part as me wanting to reconcile, which I don't.

hey guys im new to this site but was searching for answers and this came up. I am dating a man who has two children an 8 year old son and 13 year old daughter. We have been together for two years but the kids just found out about us 5 months ago when he moved in. I have an 8 year old son also from a previous marriage. The boyfriend and i have a 6 month old daughter together. I thought we would all be one big happy family but boy was i wrong!

DH and i had a plan to take a nice bike ride this weekend and go golfing. BM calls at 8 says skids dont have school and ss16 is coming down for the weekend.
DH's new thing is not wanting to leave and do US things when the skids come. everything leaving them at home must be dropped just incase they want to spend time with Dh. DH will still work outside but there is no more bike ride or golfing for the two of us. i'm thinking i'm still going to go golfing. i DONT see the point in dropping everything for them because that just reiterates that everything stops for them.

I’m so proud of SS6. It seems like he’s finally found his “voice.”

When I picked the kids up from school yesterday, SD8 said that she had a minor sore throat. Nothing else was said about it.

So what a great week with SD. She has done really well at school, learnt all her new words and has read me her book every night before bed. I think I am making good progress with her. We seem to be getting along a lot better since she came back from BM house. She said she missed daddy and I, so nice to hear, and we missed her. We are now watching to royal wedding together... she can’t believe that there really is a Prince and Princess which is really cute. Tomorrow may hold an even better day with some baking and maybe head down to the beach for a while with the family and the dog.

My SO and his BM have no custody agreement. It works out pretty well, whenever she wants her, she calls and we're good about it. Her Mom has her a few times a week if we're lucky. Well she had her yesterday, and the day before. I went to go pick the baby up from day care (she's 4), and her teacher said that she hit a girl, and SPIT on a boy! I was raised by a great family as was my SO. We're a young couple but we are very well put together. He owns his own business and I am going to school to be an attorney.

This is the first year that SS11 has lived with me and his dad. We've worked our asses off to help him pass the 5th grade, get better study habits, learn about and tend to his hygiene, eat real food, including vegetables (as opposed to microwave burgers, tater tots and ramen noodles), become more mature and more responsible, etc... He's doing so much better and is so much more healthy in every way.

Last year, around the time my husbands ex found out she would not be getting child support as there was no order and she refused him is equal visitation my step daughter 2 at the time started saying I hit her. I was pregnant at the time and was devastated. I have never hit her. She would say it when we were all around people all the time and for the most part everyone knew it wasn’t true. Now she is 3 and HATES me. I cry all the time.