Ohhh is this why BM wanted her fulltime?
So BM just messaged asking DH or myself to send a brief email that SD lives with her fulltime now so she can get food stamps.
As a reminder, the first thing she said after demanding to have her full time was that she wanted to claim her on taxes.
Maybe get a job BM. And maybe stop being such a cliche by asking for this right after getting a huge tattoo and microblading eyebrows and bleaching your dark hair blond.