Bad to worse to wtf really
i shared the problems earlier with adult stepson living at home, no responsibility, working fast food, no car, wrecked our brand new car and was never made to repair the damage, and recently, I noticed it looked even worse and he had wrecked it again. DH of course as always denied the obvious, defended him, as always, the shit just continues.
Life is horrible lately. DH was diagnosed with a tumor near his brain that isn’t cancerous but the operation to remove in a few weeks it is potentially life threatening. He has no will and has argued with me tooth and nail how he doesn’t need one. He has the mortgage and my name isn’t on it. He told me so many lies about how I “couldn’t” take over the mortgage until finally I called myself and found out yes the hell I can he just has to will first right of refusal to me and I can apply and get my own and I have the credit and income sufficient to handle it. I have two kids in elementary school that I don’t want to lose their home if god forbid they lose their stepfather. We fought and I threatened to leave because I have paid into this house and it is where my kids live and without will, I will be battling with his kids over everyone’s 1/3 and my kids and I will be out on the street.
I’ve been accused of being a money grubbing whore who just wants his house and hopes he dies. I should have faith that my parents will take care of me and my kids. That I’m not telling him what to do with HIS house.
oh, and also.... he won’t will me to take over the house because he knows I won’t let his adult son continue to live his lifestyle there.
Fuck my life. I’m so GD DONE.