Sick of this
I am sick and tired of an almost 20 year old man my adult stepson living in the basement, working part time at minimum wage, piling up trash and food garbage, now driving his mother’s vehicle since I insisted he was cut off from ours after he wrecked it and the damage was never repaired or paid for. He comes up into the main part of the house and eats our food and leaves his dirty dishes for me and I have to make sure I’m always covered up in my own home because I never know when he will randomly appear in the house. He doesn’t like his bathroom in the basement so he comes upstairs to use ours and leaves a mess. He is using drugs and I had insisted his druggie, White trash girlfriend be banned from the house. DH has decided she can now come back and I am infuriated. I have said, enough with this. He needs to go get a one bedroom apartment if he wants to work fast food and get high and run with trash. This has caused DH to threaten to kick me out of the house and go crazy and yell and defend his loser son above everything. I pay half the bills here with my job and I have about 90% of the home keeping responsibilities and I’m tired of having no say about what goes on under my roof. DH actually calls and gets my parents involved in these fights and it’s embarrassing. I’m sick and tired of this. Sick and tired. I want out.