I often think DH has his head in the sand running around to cater to skids with Disney parenting and guilt ridden  decision making......being on ST has caused me to pay even more attention to the BS

DH proved to me yesterday that he does get it, but just chooses not to. And by it, I mean the way he jumps when skids say jump usually leaving our toddler and I somehow hung out to dry.

This is daddy stalker SD13's new go to.

She likes to sing and dance....which is totally fine other than she is in 7th grade and hops and screeches around the house just like a toddler would.  Now, keep in mind that the entire time she is here DHs has to watch her perform.....I actually got caught yesterday during hour 3...taking very deep breaths in and out....my DH gave me the look of death haha

This is not new but as she gets older it's getting worse.

This was just last night alone....

I know people have it way worse but I need to vent.

Last Friday I was supposed to get a huge promotion at work....instead I’m now laid off. Great.

Skids are here and my kids so I guess I’m not allowed to be down in the dumps because my DH is acting all mad if I just go in another room for a minute.

i just lost my job can’t i just get a little support and a shoulder to cry on? No because daddy has to watch SD12 make her tick tocks and the kid has not shut the F up since she got here today......

For real! Since my divorce and then step life....very few things have gone well for me. That has seemed to change in the last couple of weeks.....

i got a huge unexpected  promotion at work making double what I did....best part is that my a-hole ex had just taken me back to court last month to reduce his CS. I spent 3k on an attorney and he spent the same.....he now pays $40 less per month on an over 1k payment......so the joke is on him....and he pressed for the CS to be calculated accordingly as to when all 3 turn 18 so we never have to go back to court. Ha.