I'm so unhappy in my marriage. Raising the two SS man babies has spoiled what was a fantastic marriage. My wife allows totally unacceptable behavior from both SS's.
She no longer will listen to even a minor criticism of her beloved man babies. the oldest , 23 , just spent the last 5 months watching cartoons and smoking pot. He's a seasonal worker , so she says. Un fukkin believable. The younger one , 21 is self employed and works maybe three hours a week. He gets up at noon or later every single day. Its sickening.

Its been well over two weeks since my dear wife agreed for her and I to talk to SS and set up next spring as his deadline to move out and become independent.
Well now we're at the stage where I bring it up with her every couple of days and she responds like I'm nagging her about it. I say " shouldnt we talk to him about his independence and she says in an angry voice , yes , but not now.
I said we should talk to him two weekends ago. Then again last weekend. And just last night I sad we should talk to him before the weekend because we have guests coming this weekend.

My dear wife told me last week , as I entered in my blog , that we would talk to oldest skid and set up a timeline for him to move out. She was hesitant about next spring but she agreed. On Friday she said we'd talk to him over the weekend.
Over the weekend I asked her two or three times when are we going to talk to SS about his independence. She replied yes we will. Well we had a number of opportunities. He was home getting high and watching his cartoons for a good part of the weekend. But she failed to initiate the conversation.