Dear wife is procrastinating about setting time line up for SS to move out
Its been well over two weeks since my dear wife agreed for her and I to talk to SS and set up next spring as his deadline to move out and become independent.
Well now we're at the stage where I bring it up with her every couple of days and she responds like I'm nagging her about it. I say " shouldnt we talk to him about his independence and she says in an angry voice , yes , but not now.
I said we should talk to him two weekends ago. Then again last weekend. And just last night I sad we should talk to him before the weekend because we have guests coming this weekend.
I think she has second thoughts about setting up a deadline with him and she feels too much like shes kicking him out. Its for next spring for heavens sake.
What really gets me angry is at first she agrees and says we will talk to him and set up a time line for him to move out. Then she finds variuos reasons to delay the conversation. And now its up to me to "nag" her about it. Ultimately leading to "another fight about the boys "
I'm getting so tired of playing second fiddle to these two "baby men".
Any advice ?
-Swimming in gratitude.