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We're moving across country...will the SK have a horrible life b/c of it?

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So yesterday, FH got a really good job offer in CA and he's taking it! Smile I'm going to transfer to a station there, as I work at the airport so the process isn't that tedious. We are both excited by it because there are WAY MORE opportunities for career growth for both of us there, as opposed to the small college town we currently live in (where there is no room for growth).

so is the mom and dad's club exclusively for BMs and BFs...because SD's team mom thinks so....

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So I thought it would be nice to sign SD2 (who lives with FH and I 5 days of the week) for summer track. I know she's very young, but they have a 6 and under division where the little kids run about 50 meters (it's really cute to watch). I started running around the same age and I still love it to this day, so I thought that this could be something we share.

I hate that MIL and BM are so close!!! ---long vent but please help!!!

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I don't know if I'm wrong for feeling this way or making a big deal out of nothing but, I hate the fact that MIL and BM are close. BM and FH were NEVER together. The second time they had sex, she got pregnant. When she found out she was pregnant, FH and I had already started our relationship. (see first post for in depth story). Apparently, MIL had a simliar situation with FIL and felt left out when he remarried and doesnt want BM to go through the same thing. But why does she care?!?!?

Moments like this make it all worth it....

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First of all......I'm soooooo glad ST is back up and running. I've missed all of the supportive SM's on here and my cool new vent space. But anyways....UPDATE! I was a little down because mother's day came around and as most of you know, we SM's are the forgotten war heroes most of the time. Well I woke up Sunday morning and got the most beautiful Step-Mother's Day card...lol--complete with a scribbled picture of me and her name...sort of. It brought me to tears. I didn;t even know they made Step-parent cards. Anyways...just thought I'd share!

Nice girls finish last....

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So my SD2 and I have the BEST relationship. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones so far (aside from BM issues) because she adores me; and although I've never given birth, I couldn't imagine loving her more if she were my bio kid. I cook for her, clean, read to her, wash her clothes, teach her, bathe her, put her to bed, and everything else in between but every once in a while she'll say "I want mommy" or "I want to go to mommy's house", and she's not talking about me.

If it ain't one thing, it's another......

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Well FH got a phone call yesterday from BM's mom (we'll call her Bio Grand-Mom). Anyway, BGM called FH livid because SD2 called her BM fat. BM is a plus-sized woman, and has had issues with this all of her life. Now although, BM is a crazy witch sometimes, I would NEVER condone this type of behavior from SD2. Apparently, BGM was yelling and screaming at FH because she is just SO SURE that SD2 learned it at our house (and most likely from me).

ST Lingo

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Ok, I'm new to the te and I already have one post....but can someone tell me what the acronyms mean? I've figured out some like BM (bio mom) SD (step dad) dh (dear husband)...but what are the others?

Where Do We Go From Here....

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So, I guess a little background is needed before I begin. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now. He has a 2-year-old daughter whom I love very much. He did not cheat on me--I'll explain. About two months into our relationship, he found out that a girl he slept with before we got together was 7-8 wks pregnant. They were friends before but never dated, they had sex a couple of times and the second time, she conceived.