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Moments like this make it all worth it....

Super Step-Mommy's picture

First of all......I'm soooooo glad ST is back up and running. I've missed all of the supportive SM's on here and my cool new vent space. But anyways....UPDATE! I was a little down because mother's day came around and as most of you know, we SM's are the forgotten war heroes most of the time. Well I woke up Sunday morning and got the most beautiful Step-Mother's Day card...lol--complete with a scribbled picture of me and her name...sort of. It brought me to tears. I didn;t even know they made Step-parent cards. Anyways...just thought I'd share! Even thought BM is a clingy psycho sometimes, times like this make me not even care about all the unnecessary drama because in the end it's all about SD2 and making sure she feel loved and cared for. I hope all of you SM's and BM's had a great mother's day too!!

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midgette71's picture

I know how you feel!!! My SD felt so bad and hurt when she informed me she wanted to make me something for mother's day and her mom told her NO! I told her all the gift I need is spending time w/ her!!! I could see that didn't make her feel much better but she felt a bit better!! My SS made me a drawing saying "i love my mom" and when I asked just to make sure if he wasn't sure he wanted to take that to his mother he said enfatically NO it's for you! My heart skipped a beat. When I said bedtime prayers w/ my SD the last two nights she said god bless dad, mommy mom etc. at the end i said wow mom got two blessings; that's so nice of you and she corrected me and told me that mommy was me and mom was her bio basically. on one hand i feel bad that BM is ruining her relationship w/ her daughter w/ her games and hateful behavior but unspeakably happy SD loves me and trusts me so much!!! even though her mother is openly hateful about me and constantly pisses on trees and protecting her title unsuccessfully. it's so nice to once in awhile be able to vent something good!!!

Super Step-Mommy's picture

AWWW! your post made me tear up...lol. That is the sweetest Mom's Day gift anyone could ask for. It makes all the BM's craziness a little more unbearable when the SK's do things like that!

overmyhead's picture

I am glad for you Super Step,

I remember those days......they even called me mom for awhile....(sniff)