I was cleaning out my DH's work bag yesterday b/c I accidentally spilled a drink on it, so I thought I'd empty it and wash it for him to be nice ya know. Well guess what I found in the inside pocket? A pay as you go cell phone. So I open it and power it up and sure enough there's his xgf's contact number (under an alias name of course). So I check all the messages to and from and the last time they texted back and forth was just a month ago, planning to meet at the gun range, of course it was so she could see ss16ypoopoo. She calls him her sonnypoo and calls herself mammabear.

I go to the laundry room today to get my laundry going since I have a full work week ahead. No Tide, no Downy Yesterday I heard ss doing laundry which is good but he used a NEW downy and an almost new 80 load bottle of tide. WTF? Then instead of letting meknow it's gone he puts the bottles back like they still have anything in them, I guess hoping to delay me noticing? Now I have to run to the store FIRST. UHG.

Just when I was happily thinking today was the last day of school and I wouldn't have to drive with ss in car anymore, bs informs me that it's next tues that school gets out. I tried to convince dh to take boys in this morning but he chose not to. I am so tired of this kid being the golden child and getting away with everything. Last night he finished up the pot of (probably about another meals worth) of stew I worked hard to make yesterday and ate the 10 muffins leftover. I was planning on a leftover night later this week.

That post about RA (relational aggression) sure got me to thinking this morning. I am so thankful to finally have a name for how things are going in my family towards DH. It's sad and I am sad that DH is being treated like shit by MY family. I always thought of them as a loving caring group with no judgements towards others, being raised by a Baptist preacher dad. I guess it goes to show that this sort of stuff can grow like tumors in any family.