I'm starting this so I can vent out some frustration. I have been with my DH for 6 years. We initally lived hours away from each other, tried to see each other whenever possible and made it work. We fell in love and  couldn't get enough of each other. He moved to be with me (because I asked). My job was in one place and his line of work he could move anywhere so he moved. I did not force him at all and actually told him I didn't want him to resent me so he would have to think long and hard before making a decision to move. He did.