Please read my previous post before reading this if you haven’t yet. Please do not hate due to this being typed on my phone.
So we are leaving tomorrow on a family trip and SD is coming with knowing she has not stayed at our house for over a few months. We have her every other weekend and if you have read my past post she has been wanting to stay at other peoples house instead of ours. Now that we are going out of town she wants to be a part of the family. I really pisses me off how my Husband allows her to do what ever she wants. He givers her that option to come and go when she please and I asked him about it today.
Having a heard time staying a float and need to just vent. SD is really getting under my skin. She is 16 now and lives with her mother. Every time she comes over she complains and I bite my tongue in the fact that this is what she wanted. I have noticed more and more her not following with social distancing and then coming over here and not washing her hands and getting in my sons face whom is 8 months old. I have had multiple conversations with SO and told him we really need to be more causious since the virus is spiking again.
I am sure I am a bad person for saying this, but I honestly can not stand why my husbands daughter comes over. She is 16 and for some reason just sets me off the minute she walks in the door. I know my husband had a child when we started dating (she was 7 at the time). I know there was going to be responsibilities from me from day one and trust me, I made sure that I was a good role model for her as best as I could. I also made sure to help take care of her as much as I could. I helped my husband get full custody of his daughter when she was 10.