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As great as our family dynamic is Its time to take a step back

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Normaly we have a great family unit, I get along great with his kids, he gets along great with my son, Mainly because we parent as a team, weve never had an issue with overstepping bounds, and the kids are usually so well behaved theres rarely a need for major discipline,

Anyway, I have also come to the realization that things are great only when they are ,,well,.,.great, But when they rocky and its time for DH to parent he gets the deer in the headlight look and says Oh well since i cant see it , then it must not exist

Just venting

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Its been a while since ive been here but I need to just vent, The outcome of the situation is obvious but its so rediculously absurd that I just need to say it out loud

Bm has done it again, Thinks she just has a right to say and do what she wants because she is compeltly unaware of her really crappy parenting.

2 ex-husband +1 lawyer ?

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Just wondering if this can be done

BM most recent STBX is going through the exact same things BM put my hubby through,

My husband has 2 kids with this woman , STBX has 1 child who is autistic and has some behavorial issues, STBX wants his son because BM is a drunken whore who is also possibly pregnant with the BF she just moved in a month ago,,,,BM left STBX a month ago saying she didnt want ot be married or a mom and needed to find herself,,,same thing she told Ex #1 Ex#2(my husband) and now STBX #3,,,anyway I will keep all the inbetween stuff out for now ,,,,,

No counseling allowed!

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Im so frustrated I need to vent, Im a lurker here ( sorry) and have no one else to vent to because im just a stepmom and the bottom line this is none of my business! Except for the fact this all happens in my house and affects my household and i cant just sit by and watch this little girl self destruct,