Its been a while since ive been here but I need to just vent, The outcome of the situation is obvious but its so rediculously absurd that I just need to say it out loud

Bm has done it again, Thinks she just has a right to say and do what she wants because she is compeltly unaware of her really crappy parenting.

BM has had 3 ex husbands, she has a 22 yr old with EX #1 who lives with her off and on, she guilts him into sticking around and helping with her 3 other kids AND gets rent from him then when he gets tired of it she throws him out and hes to far gone from her abusive ways to realize that this is an ongoing situation with no end

My husband is lucky EX #2 and he had 2 kids with her now ages 11 and 12, and a really good custody agreement so she cant do anythign to drastic,

STBX #3 she has a very autistic child with, he is almost 7 and non verbal, still wears pull ups, has a bottle for bed, and has some behavioral issues and NO Ot or counseling or any kind of therapy , she says he is just a little delayed and she doesnt have time to help him

So BM has left EX 2 because she didnt want to be married anymore and a mom at such a young age ( she was 34 when she left) and found herself with ex #3 pregnant and living with him within 3 months of leaving #2...oh and she met #3 on match.com

She just left Ex#3 in april of 2012 and is now on her 3rd live in BF. this one is 25 years older than her and a snowbird from PA, shes been with him 4 months, we found out she has violated custody agreement twice and taken the kids out of our county, but god forbid thier dad put them in counseling or take them to a DR for shots and a school physical then all hell breaks loose,,,,anyway shes been with this guy a few months and took herself and the kids to PA to vacation 10 days, she gave the 30 day written notice so it could not be denied,

So now shes home and has decided she is going to take all 3 kids awya from thier dads, aunts, uncles, grandparents, friends, and everything they have known since birth to move in with a man shes known a few months that she met on match.com while still married to hubby #3 and theres no family, no friends no support etc,,,,,,i mean really? I just laugh at the size of her big brass balls that she has the nerve to even think this is plausable,

she has told her lawyer we are unstable , lol even though we have had the same jobs for years, same residence , me for 13 years and hubby has lived here 8 years, my kids have gone to the same school district since kindergarden , I have even had the same car for 11 years,

Ahh the irony of it all i guess, Anyway like I said this is just a vent, i just cant get over how self indulged and rediculous some people can be, And she doesnt know it yet but we have a lawyer and we are just waiting for her to make a move,