Things have finally come to a head and next week SO is going to file and order to show cause. BM lives with a drug addict who spent time in prison and was just arrested a few months ago. She is supposed to have him drug tested and give SO the results every Saturday before SD goes to her house for the week. Three weeks ago he didn't get the test results he asked her what was going on and gets some BS story about how he was working and couldn't get to the Dr for the test. He said fine get it to me ASAP.

So weather is changing and we are spring cleaning around our house. Sunday we went through clothes and cleaned out closets and made a nice donation to the local Goodwill!!! Felt great to get winter stuff packed up and see what we had for spring & summer. So I told SD we will need to go shopping in the next few weeks to get her some shorts and stuff. She was very happy about it and worked her little butt off helping me clean and organize her room. I guess when she got home she told BM who got mad :?

SO has been claiming SD since the split for the last three years. In all that time BM hasn't worked. Well she just got a job working 12 hours a week. First thing she did was say it was her turn to claim SD because it's not fair that SO gets to claim her every year. We are talking about filing on the 2012 year which is way off but she is hounding him about it. Whining about how now she has to claim single and 0 on her W-4 and have too much taken out of her paycheck. If she claims her she can adjust her W-4 and get more money in her check.

It's almost 9pm here SD just calls SO and says "mom has to work early so I want to come home now" he says ok fine and hangs up. I am just floored!!! I mean come on is it so hard to have boundaries???? How about talking to BM and saying you should have called me yourself and 9pm on a school night is a little late to remember that you have to work in the morning and can't watch SD.