I finally have a few minutes to get what’s been going on out of my system.

Since BM and SO split up she has been spiraling downward. She had a very comfy life with SO. She didn’t have to work so her days were spent with dealing with the kids. Or spending time with one of her boyfriends (she cheated constantly) or causing drama with her friends, her kids friends, etc. etc. She never had financial worries or a pesky job to take up her precious time.

Yesterday we had an awesome day. SD was gone from the time I got out of the shower in the morning She was going to church with SD23 then to a family friends bday party with SD23. SO had a boys night out on SAturday so he was feeling a little crappy. He never drinks so he had a headache. I was so glad we had a skid free day I made breakfast did all the laundry and cleaning. I worked in my craft room got so much stuff done. It was a great day.

Ugggggggggg. Major vent here. SD13 does not finish anything!!!!! I pour out open sodas, tumblers with soda and ice melted down. She opens a soda or pours a soda takes a drink and leaves it. Then she opens or pours another. SO says nothing. Well she has started drinking my sodas now. Every day this week I have to pour it out, today I come home and not one ,two but three full soda cans down the drain. WTF!!!! I lost it I said no more sodas until you finish the one you opened up to begin with. This is wasteful and wrong.

SD13 just got her phone back after losing it for a month. She lost it because she was being irresponsible. She was texting late at night or texting during the day while we were at work making plans to do stuff when she knows the rules are she stays home untill we get home from work. She would make plans with her BM then leave and have some BS excuse about she had to go or some other nonsense. So she was punished and she lost her phone. She has had it back for a month now she got the talk about a phone being a responsibility and a privilege it is not her right to have a cell phone.