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It feels like I haven't had time to breath lately, let alone get on and see how all you STers are doing! Have been really busy at work these last few weeks.

SD is doing very well and it is actually not all that bad around my house lately. She of course still has that attitude that starts to develope in EVERY 8 year old, but she is back to the girl that I used to know. I can't believe that we spent all of this time playing the blame game and it turns out it really was a medical issue. Don't get me worng, BM is still a crazy Biotch, but that will never change LOL.

Update on SD and all that goes along with diagnosis and her dumb BM...

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First of all for those that have noticed, sorry I have been MIA. I had family in from out of town and we had a big celebration for my grandfather this last weekend.... anyway

So BM asked if I would go along with her and DH to the endocrinologists for SD on Wednesday and I agreed. They are going to show us how to give SD her shot if her Addison's causes her to have an attack or if a serious injury were to happen. This ought to be fun...

Now they are saying 90% sure it IS Addison's Disease

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They keep going back and forth and it is driving me crazy! The hospital has been treating SD for Addison's Disease and she has responded really well to the treatment and now they are saying they are 90% sure that is what it is. They are just waiting on the blood test to come back.

Update on SD and her "illness"

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It is NOT Addison's Disease. However, it is an adrenal issue. They said the last time she was in the hospital on IV for dehydration, they should have given her a steroid to help her adrenal glands recover and they did not, therefore they are still out of wack and are overworked again from being dehydrated AGAIN! So it all goes back to the very first time when BM didn't have the balls to MAKE SD drink SOMETHING to stay hydrated.

Hospital Stays

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So SD is back in the hospital for severe dehydration (again on her BM's time) because BM is too big of a pussy to make her 8 year old drink f*in water when she is throwing up. Seriously, yesterday she had to call DH to get SD to eat a freaking piece of toast. Anyway, she has been sick since Monday and dumb dumb BM let it go long enough that SD is now admitted to a children's hospital.

Not only that, but instead of BM driving her from one children's hospital to another (DH couldn't get there in time to do it) SD was taken by ambulance on my insurance bill.

F* my LIFE

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SD goes home at 11;00 am Sunday. BM calls yesterday and says that SD has mono and is really dehydrated. SD told her that she is dehydrated because I would not let her drink anything but kool-aid all weekend.

First of all... SD left our house Sunday morning and was perfectly FINE. Second of all, SD was told to finish her GIANT glass of kool-aid that she poured for HERSELF Sunday morning before she could have anything else. This is after an entire weekend of her sucking down all of the gatorade and water bottles that I had stored up for the hot weather for the weekend.

Torn (blog hog sorry :( )

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I have a question for you all. Ever since BM flipped her shit when I didn't agree with her 1 single time, and now she hates my guts, when we actually were friends to a certain degree, she has going around telling anyone who will listen that I am a bad mom. That I treat SD badley. That I told her that I needed counciling. That I told her that I hate my kids and that is why I have a job now. The list goes on and on. There is something new nad horrible that I have done every week.

Convo between BM and DH today

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To start SD calls DH and tells him about how excited she is about starting her singing lessons. We have heard this for 2 years and have seen nothing come of it. Apparently BM has really signed her up and she WILL be starting this summer. SD also told DH to tell me and the girls "hi" and that she missed us (that is SD signing a WAAAYYY different tune then she was singing to BM yesterday about how I treat her differently and that I hate her and she doesn't want to come because of ME!)
ANYWAY...

BM "DH you are going to have to pay for SD's singing lessons"

Not sure I can take much more.

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I really am thinking of packing my shit and leaving. I love my husband, but the shit is getting deep. After the councilor today, SD went to BM's and proceeded to tell her BM and her Grammy that she didn't like to come to our house anymore (all while bawling her eyes out) because I hate her and I treat her differently then I do my two daughters. BM calls DH bitching about this. Really BM. No shit I treat SD different. SHE IS NOT MINE!!!!! If anything, I treat her better then I do my own kids trying to kiss her ass so that she wil still come and see DH.

Little vent... going to be a lot of swearing

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That fat fucking cunt of a BM put DH on speaker phone (DH didn't know) and asked once again in front of SD if she could have SD on Sunday to go to a baby shower. DH had already shot her down once for this when she tried to trick him into it thinking he would look at the calendar to see it was Father's Day. She agreed that since it was Father's Day that he was right and he should be able to keep SD. Now she calls this morning and has him on speaker phone, asked again and DH of course said "we already talked about this and you agreed that since it was father's day that I would keep her".

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