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Getting a good night's sleep can really help clear things up...

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I think I had a cry-baby moment yesterday. A lot of what I said is true...and I really can't stand SO's daughter, and no - she is not an angel. To say the least. So, while I understand that there are things 10-year-old girls will do...I think she doesn't get enough credit for the amount of damage that she causes while she's here. Even my own parents will just say, "MissE, she's a little girl - get over it. She'll do dumb stuff." Or whatever the excuse may be.

It's mini seahag weekend again... *sigh* this is long but I need help.

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We had a bit of a reprieve last weekend, because she wanted to go to a sleep over and all that nonsense. SO is a puss bag, so he wouldn't tell the grand high seahag that it was his weekend, per his "new leaf" to have more structured visit times, and that she needed to come over and do the sleep over a different weekend. Yay me. I just don't want her in my house, and the closer we get to this baby coming...the less I feel like pretending.

Ugh - another weekend.

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This is a visitation weekend :O ...apparently SO and the Grand High Seahag have decided "together" :jawdrop: that our schedule with her should be more regular and all that. They're getting along, :sick: which makes me want to puke - simply because I'm not stupid and I know this will only last until GHSH does something to completely screw SO. She's not aware of my pregnancy or SO's idea that he and I should get married. Convenient.

OT mostly...

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This is quite off topic mostly... SO and I are planning a vacation together (it would really be our first getaway without it being "for something") and we were hoping to go to one of those all-inclusive resorts in the Caribbean. Now, ever since we've started research and planning...he's been talking about getting married. Inviting some couple friends of ours and just tying the knot whilst we're down there. :O What is going on in his crazy mind?! He's been all about making this legal lately and I don't know why.

The conversation from last night...

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I'm sure once I tell you what SO said to me, you'll understand why I was both laughing and crying.

SO- "Your stepdaughter wants to come visit this weekend, you know she'll be pretty relentless until you say yes... and you and I both work Saturday, so she'll only be here one night."

:jawdrop:

What. The. Actual. F***?

I said, "She is not my step anything, we are not married." (I know this was not the most articulate answer, but I was flustered and it just came out.)

OT...

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So we had our ultrasound today to see how I was progressing. I'm officially not at risk anymore...the pool of blood they saw is shrinking and the little one looks good! We are having another boy! I couldn't be more thrilled. I am too full of mommy love to post about the mini seahags up and coming visit. I'm sure that'll change soon.

I don't know how to handle this one because I'm angry and not rational.

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We've just moved into a bigger townhome because DS 10mths needs to be able to explore and have space to play and grow. So, with that comes the discussion of what photos we will be displaying. Now - I am the decorator of the home. If I don't do it, it won't happen - SO has ideas, and wants x, y, and z to happen but he doesn't really follow through. So - I want to get some more pictures of DS printed and framed for the downstairs, now that we actually have a nice living room...and then keep the pictures we already have hung up in his bedroom.

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