I know that I am very protective of my minor BDs but as hard as I tried BM was able to find a way to be ugly to my youngest BD behind my back!!!

Before the inheritance fiasco exposed adult skids for who they really are we used to trade off on occaision and let my minor BDs particularly the youngest that was closest in age to SGKs play or once in a while spend the night at SD 33's home. Usually we were the babysitters and SGKs were at our house.

I have been afraid to express on a public forum the details but an incident occurred whereby it is possible? that my adult skids may have deliberately placed my BDs in harms way! This has been weighing on my mnd for some time now and feel that I need outside input on it to help me figure it out! My minor BDs and H were loaned an offroad vehicle from SD and her husband about the time that H was to get his inheritance from his mother's estate that ended up catching on fire with BDs on it!

Our SIL and BIL invited us over for a holiday party on Christmas Day. They had asked my husband if he wanted them to invite his two older children. He said no - that they had refused to talk to him all year so he saw no reason for inviting their drama to a party with family and friends! Besides they had refused SIL's last two invitations to a baby shower and to their new grandchild's christening so we did not think that not inviting them would be a big deal(no RSVP - just did not show up- part of their continuous will we or won't we show up drama).

As you can see from my prior blogs, my SS 35 has not spoken to my husband or myself other than to have huge adult temper tantrums since my husband's mother died two years ago. My SD 33 has refused to talk to us and let husband see his grandchildren since I did not invite her 2 children to go to the show with me, my visiting sister, my visiting neice, and my two DDs last Christmas. She has thrown several huge adult temper tantrums since this time - but I don't consider that communication just yelling and cursing on her part.