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BF Ex drives me nuts

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Submitted by Lacey on Fri, 01/19/2007 - 3:35pm

So my BF cousins GF just had a baby girl...yahoo.My BF other cousin is still friends with BF ex so they were talking about the new baby.The ex asks if there will be a baby shower and says she would love to come.First of all the ex isn't even friends with the one who had the baby...actually last time I talked to babies Mom she hated the ex.So iget a phone call today from my MIL saying that the ex may be at the shower...how did I feel about that?I told her I wasn't very comfortable around her but also mature enough to deal with it.Then I told her I was a little shocked that she might be there

SD loses my trust

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Submitted by Lacey on Mon, 01/15/2007 - 2:56pm

We had our son's 2nd birthday party this weekend at my house.So my BC and SC were here...along with family and friends.My oldest SD (she is 11)had my video vamera and sneaks upstairs with it to goof around with it with her friends.So turns out they are in my room..no big deal...BF retrieves the camera and brings it back to me.Later my SD tells me that she wanted to do a video on thongs and proceeded to go thru my underwear draw and pull out some of my intimates (if you know what I mean).SD then shows them to her friends and my youngest SD (she is 7).I was furious.So her dad (my BF) tells he

I think the ex still has control (or maybe he is scared to talk to her)

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Submitted by Lacey on Mon, 01/08/2007 - 4:15pm

Let me explain the situation.My BF and I do not live together...but we have a 2 year old son togehter.My BF has 2 daughters from a previous relationship.Whenever he has his daughters I suggested he have our son over as well..that way the kids all get some time togehter.Well he phoned me the other day after having all 3 of them saying it was just too difficult.When he has them on a school night he has to get the girls to school and I guess he says that takes a lot out of him and cuts in to his work day.Thats fair enough...but his solution then is to not have our son over when he has his daug

Advice on telling your children they are 1/2 brother or sister

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Submitted by Lacey on Wed, 01/03/2007 - 9:29pm

So my daughter..she is 7..came up to me tonight and told me that her dad..my ex..told her that her little brother is only her 1/2 brother.I never even thought of explaining this to her or how I would because I don't think it really matters.But I guess my ex felt it was his right to tell her.I am pissed off about it because I don't think it is up to him.I explained it to my daughter and she seemed to understand.I am just mad that he put me in this situation.

Just needed to vent about that.

Thanks.

Lacey

My ex is crazy....I'm back to court again

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Submitted by Lacey on Wed, 01/03/2007 - 7:42pm

Not again...my ex of 4 years constantly takes me to court.We just went thru a full 2 day trail because he didn't want to pay any child support,only wanted our children to attend his Catholic Church and a Catholic School.

A bit of history might help.We were together for 5 years and have 3 children,a 7 year old daughter and 5 year old twin boys.The entire time we were together I attended a non denominational Church with our children.I always asked him to attend and he never would.Not once to he suggest we go to a Catholic Church.