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I think the ex still has control (or maybe he is scared to talk to her)

Lacey's picture

Let me explain the situation.My BF and I do not live together...but we have a 2 year old son togehter.My BF has 2 daughters from a previous relationship.Whenever he has his daughters I suggested he have our son over as well..that way the kids all get some time togehter.Well he phoned me the other day after having all 3 of them saying it was just too difficult.When he has them on a school night he has to get the girls to school and I guess he says that takes a lot out of him and cuts in to his work day.Thats fair enough...but his solution then is to not have our son over when he has his daughters...he says they really don't get any time together anyway.I am a nice girl and said fine...so now his daughters will only see their brother every other weekend.I suggested that he talk to the ex and ask if she can either pick up the girls before school or he drop them off earlier...they live about 10 mins from eachother and BM doesn't work until 5 pm..so it shouldn't be a problem.Well he of course hasn't talked to her yet.I swear that he bends over backwards for her.He tells me that he still feels bad for the way he left her (she wasn't expecting it).I have told him before that it seems to me that if she says jump he says how high.So now our son is the one pushed aside instead of just talking to the ex.Ahhh...I am pissed off.

Lacey