Hello all! I really should get on here more. Maybe it would make me feel better about a lot of things. It is just really hard being a single parent to someone else's kid especially when they force her down your throat as your own. I am finding my self resent the fact that SD4 is even ther and making me reconsider even getting married in 6 months. This is not what I signed up for. I never thought it it wold become my total responsibility to raise this child. FH works until about 8 or 9 at night. By then she is going to bed which a whole other problem in it self.

Hello All, it's been a while since I have been on here and I really needed to vent today. Last time I posted I told you all that we got SD3 Mon-Fri and it was going okay. Well...FH got a promotion at work which os great BUT it also means longer hours as well as staying later than his schedule say ETC. This also mean more responsibility on me. He takes her to school beofre he goes to work and then I pick her up after work aroung=d 3:45ish and have her until he gts home which can be anywhere from 8:30- ???? Now, I take care of her, feed her, bathe her and get her ready for bed.

So I was just wondering what is so great about BMs that make our DH/FH do what ever they want just so they "don't make waves". I mean, they must not be so wonderful or they would still be with them and not us right? I just had to ask...:P

So SD3 might be coming to live with me and FH full time while BM "gets her act together" ( which most likey means lives it up and parties while we raise her child for her) Anyway, I truly feel that our place is a much better place to raqise a child, it is stable, we both have steady and good jobs and it is structured , well I am at least. Here is where the problem comes in, FH works late and since I work too we will need to put SD in day care.