Hello all, if you rememeber about a month or so ago BM was thinking about letting SD3 live with us Mon-Fri and she would see her on the weekends and I was worried about doing EVERYTHING for the kid while FH works. WELL...it happened. We have her, this is 3 weeks now and it is actually working out so far. He gets her ready in the morning and takes her to daycare and then I pick her up and he gets off early most days now so I am still able to get stuff done and have some "me" time. She goes to her BM on Friday night and comes back on Sunday night which also leaves the weekend. She has been behaving better too. It's amazing how structure and discipline can change a child. The only thing is when she comes back she is a little wild since her mom lets her do whatever she wants and barely pays attention to her. I was so stressed when FH told me this was happenning but I guess everything works out. I wanted to share something positive and maybe let you all know that there is hope out there yet...LOL.