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Start of Trip

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This morning I woke up early and headed to the store to pick up last minute items for our trip.
I did not pack the Skids clothes because I have been super drained and wanted their input for what they wanted to wear.

Bah!

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I got upset with my boyfriend AGAIN last night because his D.B. Ex always calls at the last minute to change the kids schedule and he never asks me before just saying "Ok" (which I discussed in my last post)

Well the kids grandma called (DBs mom) and asked for the kids on Wednesday. (our rescheduled day)

Schedules

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Mondays and Tuesdays we are suppose to get the Skids from 5pm til 8pm but BM text last minute (Mon @ 4:45)asking for CS. (As usual) and said she was at the river with the skids and they wouldn't be back until late..or he can go pick them up at the river....(Really bitch?!)...So he text back that CS is always paid on the 1st and what is the status of getting CS set up with the Payment Center (That she is dragging her ass on) and she said she would call tomorrow and we could have the skids Wednesday (Our alone/date night) instead of today.

Dig a hole....

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I do not hate or dislike my Skids but...I dislike their BM.
She has entitlement issues and thinks I am a dumb kid (we aren't too far apart in age but I look young and she looks haggard)but I guess diet pills, recreational drugs and alcohol do that to people.

She really hasn't ever spoken to me very much---and I am OK with that. She can think what she wants...but even her own father told my SO "Your gf really has her head on straight"

My SS is a mini version of BM but my 2 SD's are pretty good.

Responsibility List____ The doomed chores!

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}:) I sometimes think I am too harsh on the Skids....because I had a harsh upbringing.I knew right from wrong, did multiple chores with no allowance (to earn my keep my dad said LOL)--I turned out OK...got my shit together and so on.

My boyfriend lets a lot of things slide. He starts this "star chart" but can't remember to do simple things..like..do the star chart so I said "nope not happening..these kids aren't babies anyway" they demand a star if they put a roll of TP up or clean up after themselves.. REALLY?!

UGH!

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I might be posting more than once a day for a while. LMAO--this is the only way I can vent/get my feelings out!

Sunny Summer

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For those of you that are noticing my blog....I sometimes write down multiple posts but not posted them until later when I have more time--I wanted to find a Stepparent sight I liked..and I researched and chose this one. This is an update! Feel free to comment your opinions..good or bad. There will be times I will be judgmental and negative...in my posts...I hope we all understand...this is how I feel at that moment... Wink

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