Without going through the 6 years of  stress with my husbands ex and kids I am needing advice to help with my resentment.

I hate the way my husbands kids treat him. One minute all is ok but then they'll igniore him or talk through message to him like something they've stood in. This is how it's been for too long now.

It's very obvious he's now only seen when they want something.

He does see this too but as he says he's there Dad.