The Cell Phone issue again
I stated in my previous blogs that SD stole money from BM's credit card and bought herself a cellphone/cellphone plan. SD is still in a group home and does individual and family (mostly BM) therapy. SD and her therapist along with DH decided to confront BM with a plan for SD to get the stolen phone back from BM.
I am still trying to comprehend why the therapist and DH are on board with SD having a cell phone. 1. The cell phone was stolen 2. BM has had her phone/computer and tablets confiscated by police on more than one occasion because SD was sending naked pictures of herself and chatting with child molestors (yes, multiple child molestors) 3. SD had a recent (less than 6 months ago) problem where she invited a boy over for sex and sent him naked pictures of herself using her laptop from school. She did cry rape after the incident. Why would anyone want to have a repeat of any of this?????
I honestly thought BM would inform them to kiss her butt and not allow this. Oh no, she has given SD the cell phone this weekend. SD can use the cell phone the weekends that she is not at the group home. SD comes home from the group home about twice a month for the weekends and she comes home on holiday weekends as well. SD has the phone UNSUPERVISED during the time she has it. DH stated that when she gives the phone to BM she has to give it to her without a password and BM will look through the phone. Yeah, that is going to work. SD erases what she doesn't want them to see. She has done that before. DH stated that "No, she isn't going to erase anything." "SD has learned her lesson about stealing and doing inappropriate things on the internet." YEAH< RIGHT
SD has a Tender account. For those that do not know, a site for Meeting & Dating Affluent Older Singles. Of course, I am told that all teenagers have accounts there. The teens are just playing around and nothing will happen.
I have never been around so many brain dead people. I am not going to say anything to him about the cell phone. WHEN something bad happens and it WILL, he can cry on BM's shoulder. I have washed my hands of this whole crazy mess.