This is the last week of the summer visit. I'm glad SD15, SD12 and SD10 can spend time with BS2.75. I'm glad they can spend time with dad. They aren't bad kids. I don't have bio mama drama. But I miss my privacy. I miss fewer people messing up my house. I miss the 1-2 hours a day I used to get quality time with my spouse after BS went to sleep. I miss being chosen by my partner. 

I don't expect the emotional relationship to be the same as a bio parent relationship.