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Field trip

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Don't know why I'm so bothered to find out SO is going on a field trip with his daughter.
I really think he's a great dad, but why do I get these feelings?! I went to see a therapist
With SO and she asked if I was jealous?. I didn't think I was, I just thought they are both
annoying with all their googoo gagaga talk. But I do admit when it's our time to have her
I feel this feeling inside where I'm very unhappy my world turns upside down. Anything he
does for her iterates me like crazy. I love kids, I don't know why I still haven't learned to love

SO driving me crazy

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Finally seeing a therapist tomorrow.. I just want to be happy again, but there is no way Mo how . I can't put up with SO and his relationship with his daughter. I'm tired of all the arguments and the name calling for example I'm jealous, I have dad issues and what do I have against his daughter ?? I'm sick in the head. We'll I call it what it is. Sd6 gets treated better then I do, he panics when he's late picking her up even by one minute he doesn't want to let his little princess down EVER...

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How many of you suffer from depression? What do you do or how do you overcome it? I've looked online to see what the signs were, and well it pretty much explained what I'm feeling and how I feel often.
I can say whenever we have SD6 I notice my mood changes and my feeling for SO change. I'm feeling blah Sad

Venting

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Don't know what came over me but as I sat in my own bed with SO here comes his little princess with her stuffed animal jumps into our bed and starts to cuddle with daddy and daddy is showing her videos on my iPad all I want to do is kick them out nicely.... Can they do this shit somewhere else?! This man is great but I don't know how much longer I can take of this. She's six years old not one so she need to act and get treated like a six year old. Pheeeew just had to let that out:)

She wants to work out with me??

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So I get a call from SO and he tells me that his Bm wants to know if he or I can introduce her to our gym, I
first thought to myself she's kidding right?! Well he told her he couldn't so asked her to ask if I would. SO and myself workout at the same gym and I guess she's heard really good reviews about this gym nevertheless I

One kid, really?!!

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So we run into a some girl SO new from his past, and she asked him how he's been and how many kids he
has now and this punk replied with (one). Really???? We're not married but we live together and he sure the hell disciplines and gives them chores. He's been asked before how many kids he has by other people and he has said 3 or one and two step kids. Not sure if I should make this a big deal or not. How would you feel if you heard your SO/DH not include your kids when asked how many kids he has??

Phone call

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SO and I are having another big argument, and I just need to vent. Last night we were on a red eye flying back to California. It's about 12:30 am and I see him texting his kids mom and telling her to let their daughter know that he loves his daughter , now I don't mind him texting the mom about his daughter but midnight??? Really? I know he gets anxiety and really scared before he flys but I just don't think texting the mom at midnight when we all know his daughter is asleep and won't get the message till the morning...

Being nosy

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I just want to ask how many of you ladies have a problem with your DH and ex texting each other? I know they have a child together but when she's sending pics of herself when she was young and telling him how their daughter looks exactly like her when she was young and him agreeing to her and letting her know that they are identical and that's he's here mini me. Or when they just having simple conversations... I really hope I'm not jealous :/ hope this isn't normal. I mean there has been more text messages and pics of her sent to his phone so he can show sd 6 ...really??

Am I over reacting

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Not sure if this is normal or not but I would love to hear all or some of your opinions. My Sd6 has been sleeping with no undies since she was off diapers I'm guessing, I've been in her life a little over three years now and this was already going on, apparently she's had a rash when she was very little from her wearing underwear and Bm suggested or maybe their doctor suggested she not wear underwear at bedtime. I've asked my fiancé about this and I've expressed to him I found this very strange.

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