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I am so Fing Pissed Right Now

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Submitted by Ninji on Thu, 11/27/2014 - 5:51pm

Stupid Bitch BM drops Skids off for the third time in 5years but can't just drop them off and leave. Bitch has to come to the door. So I ask her what she wants and she says that Robbie (BF X stepson) wants to talk to BF. I get pissed an walk away. Turns out Robbie doesn't really want to talk to BF. BM wants money because BF's X SD is graduating high school and she wants him to help pay for pictures. XSD has been living with her boyfriend for over a year. BM doesn't need to be at MY door asking for money.

Funny Look

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Submitted by Ninji on Wed, 11/26/2014 - 7:19pm

My B Day is next week and BF has told me he can't take me to the restaurant I've been talking about all year. So I told him that he has to do something special for my 40th in 3years. He said OK, but I want something special on my 40th in one year. I said, OK, Boy or Girl. The look on his face!!! LOL

Did I teach him a lesson or Screw myself

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Submitted by Ninji on Fri, 11/21/2014 - 1:31pm

A little back story...BF complained about the amount of money I spent on food every time I went shopping. Every time, I tried to explain to him that food is expensive. It's our second (not counting CS) biggest bill every month. The funny part was, I was paying for the groceries out of my own money. I never asked him to chip in or help. I love to cook and I buy good food. I don't buy a lot of boxed or prepackaged stuff.

I was spending about $250 every two weeks and would stop at the store if we needed milk, bread or fresh veges.

Selective Memory

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Submitted by Ninji on Fri, 11/21/2014 - 6:59am

AHHHH. I get so tired of men and their selective memory.

We have three dogs. The larger dog stays in the living room at night and the two Mini Schnauzer's (MS) stay in the room with us. I got MS1 when I lived alone and he slept in the bed with me. We got MS2 together and from the beginning I said I didn't want him in the bed with us. Just no room. But BF says he's so cute and slowly starts letting him stay in bed with us until it's an every night thing.

Sometimes I feel like BF's personal piggy bank

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Submitted by Ninji on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 3:03pm

This morning on the way to work, BF says he can't think of anything to get SD10 for Christmas and ask me to look for something on Amazon while at work. So I browsed around Amazon and found a cute pink art set for less than $20. I got her a My Little Pony sketch book for Christmas last year and she finally started using it. So I send him the link and said we could get her that, some drawing paper and a few more sketch books. All he replies with is Cool.

I had to just roll my eyes

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Submitted by Ninji on Mon, 11/17/2014 - 6:17pm

I checked the Skids electric grades today and saw they were both missing a lot of assignments. I printed it all out and gave it to BF.

SS8's teacher was out for an emergency about a month ago for two weeks and when I emailed her today about his missing assignments, she explained that her fiance had surgery and she would be out until Thursday. She did say she would send me is missing assignments then. Very kind of her. She doesn't have to let him make up the work.

I seriously live in the Twilight Zone

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Submitted by Ninji on Mon, 11/17/2014 - 8:26am

A little background...Last May I took SS8 and SD10 to the dentist because their BM has never taken them and both had rotting teeth. SS had 10 cavities and had to have two removed they were so bad and SD had 8 cavities and had to have two removed. I won't get into the details of trying to get BM to help pay. That's a whole other story. So after two appts a month (guess who took off work to take them), last month was the last one.

Friday at the dinner table:

It makes me sad

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Submitted by Ninji on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 1:36pm

I picked the SKids up from school about an hour ago. While we were driving SS tells me he wishes he could live with us and asked if I wish it too. I say of course I do. He says that BM won't let him, but he has thought of a way to make her. He's going to tell her every second of every day that he wants to live with his dad. He just knows it will work. Poor kid

What would happen if...

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Submitted by Ninji on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 1:07pm

Had this discussion last night with BF. I said I bet if he were to pass away, that the kids BM would still let me get them every weekend.

She has only had them maybe 10 weekends in the last 5yrs and that’s being generous. We'd have them all the time if CS wasn't paying her rent....

So, if your SO were to pass away would you want to still get the Skids and would the BM allow it.

I would want to. They are brats sometimes but I love them. Smile

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