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Im blessed

So, everyone has those horrible days or situations. And everyone always says that "everything happens for a reason". And at the time, you never see it. Sometimes it takes weeks, sometimes months, and maybe even years to see that. But I do really believe that. I have put up with every nasty, bitchy, mean spirited thing imaginable from BM. It has definitely made me see how to treat others. I started a new job last week. DH and I weren't sure what I was going to do with our BD-3. Well, she is being taken care of by my ex husbands wife!

Are we in the wrong?

I just wanted to get some advice from people out there...My Dh has three kids. SS17 lives with us full time-has since he was 12. BM sees him every other weekend. The other 2 sd11 and ss9 we have every other week from monday to monday. I also take them on BM's days. She drops them before school and picks them up from me on her way home from work. The times she sint working, i still take them so she can save on gas... What we have come to realize is that money (cs) is the root of all evil. My ex and us share my bio-son 50/50-monday to monday schedule. neither one of us pay any cs.

Where do I start??

Ok...Im new here. here is my background. I met my DH almost 5 years ago-we married about 2 and a half yrs ago. We were both in the first stages of divorce when we met. At that time, i was told how well he got along with his ex which may have been the case until she found out I was in the picture. He moved in with me a few months later. He adopted SS17 when he was 6 after marrying BM (his BF was a deadbeat). SS17 came to live in my home about 7 months after I met DH due to the fact that BM could not handle him and he had flunked the 7th grade and was going to have to repeat.

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