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The feeling of defeat

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First off, if you are taking the time to read this, thank you. I basically just do this to keep my sanity :?

I checked the mail this morning and low and behold we have a thick envelope from our domestic relations court. Once again, the ex-wife wants to modify child support. She started receiving $700/mo for the two boys with 50/50 custody back in October. We had it modified in February because we found out she was working full time v. the part time she claimed with the initial hearing. It went down maybe $25/mo. Wasn't much.

Am I the only one that doesn't get this?

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My BF has had his two boys on his insurance through his employer since they were born. "Crazy" told us she put them on medical assistance which we thought was weird because there is no purpose for that. When they did child support she didn't have them on it so she just recently did it. My BF went to the welfare office because it just didn't seem right to have them on both - well apparently its perfectly OK :O so now Im totally confused. They told him that since she has 50% custody, she can have them on medical assistance. Does anyone else think this is stupid?

It'll never be over

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Sometimes, for a quick second, I see a light of hope and think that maybe one day our life will not revolve around the crazy….then reality sets in and I crawl back into my hole of hopelessness. Every time we think we are "ahead of the game" or that we will finally have something go our way - it back fires. I believe in karma - or I have just convinced myself that at some point things have got to bite this girl in her ass in order to keep my sanity - not sure.

Lovely FB Post

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Crazy BM just posted on FB that she is seriously looking for a professional hit man..(she went on a rant to my BF today). One of her low life friends put "for one person or two, I have a feeling its two". She replied, "two would be nice, but I'll settle for one". Some lovely man put $5000 for the amount he would do it for. Awesome right?! The two people she is referring to are me and my BF.

Sanity is all I ask for. ONE day of it would be great! Ugh.

50/50 Custody - Child Support

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Am I the only one that thinks if you have 50/50 custody of your kids, there should be no child support?! I don't think its fair at all that a man/woman should have to give the other parent money when they share custody. You each have equal responsibility therefore when they are in your care, you pay for whats needed and vice versa…just don't get that system at all. :?