Hubby and I are due to be out to see my SD in a month. We just found out that BM has moved. She won't tell us what the address is, but that it's still in the town they are living in and "not far from where we lived before". Seriously lady? That doesn't tell us ANYTHING.

Dear Dh,
You know how much this topic is driving me insane so I hope to be able to draw up a contract on how we will deal with violence between Sd and Biobaby if it is too occur. With this contract I can put aside my fears and know that we have a plan in place to deal with this situation if it happens.

My DH took out CS on himself because the military makes him pay double what the court would order him to pay. Of course BM wasn't going to put CS on him. So he filed the papers on himself. We have been waiting 6 months to find out that BM told CS office that SD is not my DH's. Because it is such a different case (a man putting himself up for CS) the CS office thought the papers were backwards and they changed it to look like BM was trying to put CS on him so they sent the papers with the amount of CS he would be paying to BM.

I come from a stepfamily, my sister and I both have a different dad and my brothers are my Mum and SF's. Well, my SF adopted my sister and I since niether of our fathers was really 'in the picture' so to speak. Well now he is disowning us. He has scheduled some sort of meeting in which he will officially detach him from us (basically tossing out the adoptions) and will disinherit us both from the will. Why? Well this is where it gets LONG and interesting.

I love my husband, however, I'm starting to forget all the reasons why I married him in the first place. There seems to be so many more obstacles now that we're married and seems to be so MUCH more work than ever expected. You see I was always an active person. Whether is was hiking or walking or taking my very beloved dog to the park (which I had to give away when I decided to move with my husband to his home state....a decision I regret with my whole heart).

OK guys, I'm heartsick with worry about this one. Does anyone have any good stories about how the skids acted when they came for their visit and they had a baby brother/sister?

I go for my ultrasound tomorrow but I can't help but worry about everything ahead of us. Munchkin has already said and done a few things to make me think she is not going to be happy when this baby comes and she has to share her dad.

This was my original blog entry...
I have a question for anyone who may have the answer?? When do the weekend visits stop? At what age are the SK's no longer interested? By the time my children were 13, 14 & 17 the could've cared less to go to their Dad's. I just wondered has anyone been through it & know how much time I still have to do???? LOL

I have known my DH for approximately 25 years. We have only been married for 4 years. After our marriage, we decided that it would be beneficial to sponsor his daughter who lived in a different country. The sponsorship was made and she came to live with us here in Canada. A month after she arrived, this young lady started acting up. She would come up into my face and call me all the names in the book. When this child was not living in Canada, I made sure that my husband supported her. Anyways, she came here and we gave her everything her heart desired as she didn’t have it before.

Just when I think that things might be ok..reality hits me in the head. Perhaps I should just give up .....give up a man that I love more than anyone I have ever known. But I am so tired of feeling this way. This morning he questioned me about something that I couldn't find in the car that his daughter had left in the car. I honestly looked everywhere and couldn't find it. He told me this morning he was going out to look for it.

BM has filed a case with the court to allow her to take SS with her when she moves, please keep me and DH in your prayers....As i stated in my last post she is getting married and moving away to anoter state and is trying to take SS with her....our lawyer seems to thinkt that this will not fly because my DH has been in his sons life since birth...but i am a little nervous.....