He did let the kids into the house when he got home then he came to find me. As the nail salon I use is only a mile away from my house and he drove past it on the way home and saw my truck, it apparently did not take a genius to locate me in the coffee shop, sipping coffee and watching CNN on their TV. I truly thought he would start another argument but instead he sat down at the table and apologized.

:jawdrop:

Let's SAY...

that you are the father of a child. The mother has never let you have visitation without her around...for reasons such as "she will cry if I'm not there. you haven't proved you can take care of her. I'm not comfortable with her riding in a car with anyone if im not there" etc. etc.

HERE'S THE UPDATE:

I am so glad to find this site! I have a SS10 and SS7 and an amazing husband. The only downfall is the BM. It is amazing that most SM's have the same type of person to deal with in a BM. I can't believe the courts and CSS can't see this! Ours is a story of her withholding the kids from DH and then being pissed off when he moved to my city and saying he "left his family". BS.

After Orkin came, I had left and went out to run errands. This is not a new practice, my days off I do the grocery shopping, errand running and yes I stopped to get a manicure while I was out. Rarely am I home when the skids get home from school. At about 5pm my cell phone began ringing. The skids had finally managed to walk home after their detention and were apparently upset that I was not home. No, they didn't miss me. They missed access to the house as apparently none of the four of them remembered their house key.

This is almost word for word the conversation:

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday. I just wanted to update.

I am divorced. Its official. Yay!!! Now we just have to get my name off of the house. Which should happen in about 2 weeks. I am very happy. I lost some weight, and am back in shape. I have been dating someone for about 4 months, 3 years younger and NO KIDS!!! Everything is going really well. Leaving my ex was the best decision I could have ever made.

I hope everyone has a wonderful New Year!!!

Our recycle bin was stolen a few weeks ago. This has been stuck in my craw for weeks and I have stayed pissed off about it every trash/recycle day since some idiot stole my bin.

I took the trash out last night at about 01:00 AM and noticed that my across the street neighbors had two WM recycle bins and concluded that they had stolen my recycle bin. WM only provides one recycle bin in our neighborhood. MY DAMNED NEIGHBORS STOLE MY BIN!!!! Grrrrr!

So, I walked across the cul-de-sac and dumped one of the recycling bins in the other and took MY recycling bin back.

This is someone esles story that was on another site however I thought you ladies would love this one. WOW just WOW is all I have to say.

Okay... I wanted the new Zumba game for Wii for Christmas, but it was never in stock anywhere. So this morning I'm on WalMart's site looking for something else and decide to see if they have it. It's not available online, but it's listed as in stock in my local store. Since I had to go out anyway, I decided to try my luck, sure that the listing was wrong but what did I have to lose?

The month of december BM was in the picture more than usual. she stopped folding clothes and started going out with a new white trash boy toy who also has a kid. Well BM wanted my SS6 over for a sleepover. ( he hasent slept over there in more than 1 year) SS6 has came back from BM's on a crack cocaine mom high!! my mom this and my mom that and she cooks better than you ( i dont consider PB&J 3 times a day as cooking)and so on and so on. Its so annoying. From a recent visit over new years saturday night, he came home and started asking my BF questions about BM.

After much screaming, yelling and discussions with my husband we decided to stop arguing with each other and to tackle this problem with my step-daughter as a team. I was very honest with him and told him how I feel that this child is doing nothing but wreaking havoc in our household, how her behavior on our family vacation was mortifying along with letting him know my concerns with exposing my son to this situation any longer. We agreed that we would talk to BM about what is going on and try to come up with a reasonable resolve.