feeling like second best.. a tag alongs
Im a second wife, so I wanna know if this is normal stepfamily thing but it makes me feel so unhappy. My husband always compare our kids to his favorite daughter, andunless shes here, we get her eowe, we dont go out and have fun, we have two kids together, so one time, I really want to bring the kids to the airshow but sd decided not to come, husband gave me a hard time but I was able to bring myself and our kids and we had fun without him.he was aggravated that he tried getting back, then he decided to have a memorial day party when the money we have is to pay the rent and invite sd. So this week, we are broke. Husband bought an inflatable pool but we werent able to use until sd was here. My daughter had ear pierced when she was six months because thats when sd had hers. My son whos almost 3 cant go see a dentist for check up because sd didnt get to see dentist til shes 9, to get braces. Wtf... What sre we to him? Tag alongs? he told me a lot of times sd is his heart.. Ok.. Then once he said she is the center of our lives.. Wtf... So me and my kids lives suppose to revolve around her? I feel resentment rising my blood boiling.