Here I am once again blogging, but this time all in good spirits. I've managed to leave my toxic, abusive, narcissistic and tormenting relationship with the help of some close family and friends.
I'm now in a rented apartment with my kids who are all doing much better than where we were before. I must say Thank God.
Looking back at where I was is still a bit sad for me but I'm grateful to be in a better place, mentally, emotionally and physically. I'll always appreciate this site and all of you in here. Because of you guys continued support and advice I was able to make a stand for myself.
I now view my ex husband as a total monster. He played the victim card for quite some time after I left, even claiming that he's now suffering from kidney failure, he, however haven't taken the break up too well since this time he's pretty sure I'm not coming back. He tried countless strategies towards my return but haven't succeeded. I made up my mind to battle it on my own regardless of any situations...
My ex husband recently began paying child support for his daughter and eventually moved on with a woman from our previous relationship. Showing me that he has indeed moved on. I wished him nothing but the best.
However, while doing some grocery shopping last weekend, his new lady ran into me, asking me how I did it for so long..
And so she began explaining to me that my ex husband and her is dating and she has been catching up to him telling her lies especially concerning his daughter. One day he told her he's going to work, when he was in a water amusement park with DD. She only found out he was not in work and in fact in the amusement park when he got home later that evening and she purposely went into his phone... DD has been extremely rude to her already and my ex hides to talk to his DD. And he's also been lieing to DD about his current woman. When she confronts him about the lies concerning DD he flips out on her and abuses her verbally. She's claiming he's living a secretive life with DD.
Learning that the problem is still continuing even after I remove myself from the picture left me speechless. I will always question why does a man has to hide and live a secretive life with his teenage daughter. Because he's definitely not lieing about anything concerning our daughter, why is it specifically the eldest daughter? I wish I knew exactly what's behind this incase I need to protect my daughter from him in the near future.