WHAT A COINCIDENCE!!!
Just yesterday I blogged about bumping into my EX new supply (his gf), who mentioned to me that she's now having serious issues with my EX lieing to her etc, concerning his mini- wife (daughter).
And then a few hours later my phone rang, strange number, but I decided to answer.
To my surprise it happened to be my EX requesting visitation with our daughter. My greatest fear. I honestly fear for my daughter I don't know if it's because I've witnessed the relationship he had with his elder daughter (mini-wife)
But I had to give in because it's part of the law that he has rights, especially so because he paying child support for her. So, we agreed that he'll take her every other Saturday, only for the day and no over nights, only of his elder daughter isn't present. In which he agreed.
I saw the things she (mini- wife) is capable of when she doesn't like someone, and I'm afraid that she'll put him against my daughter, making him probably scold her etc. She's the boss of her dad and he works around her like clock work. Whatever she says goes so that wouldn't work out to well for the child I share with him. She (mini- wife) is very toxic and unhealthy especially when it comes to my daughter. However EX doesn't have a problem with my terms he also admitted that his daughter (mini-wife) doesn't acknowledge that her little sister exist and he doesn't talk about our daughter with her (meaning that he himself refuses to acknowledge that he has another daughter when he's dealing with mini-wife) because mini- wife doesn't ask about her little sister.
He goes on to admit that she (mini-wife ) doesn't like me and my daughter. In which I replied good, she doesn't have to like me, I'm not her mother....
The hate I have for that little girl is beyond ridiculous. Is this even normal for a woman to hate a child (16yr old) this much? The fact that she played the role as a mistress for the entire time I spent with her dad making my life a living hell... Now she's continuing that role in his bed relationship..
With all that I said, my biggest fear is for my daughter.. I dont know how to cope with this new changes of her having to be expose to him without me being able to protect her from mini-wife and all that follows through.