FIL claims SD wants to see DH
So FIL messaged DH last night telling him that SD is very sad little girl and would like to meet him and our one dog (only the dog he had before meeting me of course) at a park. And then he added, "or are you done with being her dad now?"
So the first strange thing about this is that SD is currently on vacation in a different state at her maternal grandma's house (I'm guessing FIL doesn't know that). Also, why is this info coming from FIL? Is it just another attempt to get to DH since he's cut them all of and all of their attempts to surprise him and work and home have failed?
It's so infuriating that for the last year and a half it's been nothing but them trashing DH and how he (we) are too awful for SD to even be at our home for a couple hours, and now the narrative is switched to "oh you're just done being her dad?" and she's so sad that she hasn't seen him, which was by HER choice and influenced by the inlaws and BM. They spent how much time trashing us to her. And also, strangely it's as though her younger siblings still don't exist. No mention of them at all. It's just supposed to be SD, DH, and the older dog, exactly like it was 7 years ago when the inlaws were happier with the circumstances of DHs life. Nvm how DH feels about HIS OWN LIFE circumstances, the inlaws aren't happy that he grew up and got married and had more kids, so things must go back to how they were when MIL got to run the show.