Summer plans with Nasty (SO is looking for advice/opinions please)
This summer is shaping up to be WONDERFUL! *heavy sarcasm*
A little history, for those who have not read my blogs…
SO was married to Nasty for 8 years, XSD was 4 when SO married Nasty and started raising XSD as his own (her BD was not in the picture). She is now 16 and living in Germany with her maternal GP’s who Nasty gave full parental rights and custody of XSD (now 16) to.
The GP’s are sending XSD16 to FL to visit Nasty for the month of July. This is also when SO will be driving to FL from TX (AGAIN!) so that Nasty can exercise her (minimum) visitation with the resident Skids, SD8 & SS9. I had not planned on going to FL because my own dad is going to be going through his last cancer treatments (both radiation and chemo) during the time that the FL trip has been planned.
SO was hoping to be able to see XSD16 face to face for the first time since January 2009 and spend time with her…this was promised to him by Nasty when he planned on driving all the way to FL again vs. Nasty having to pay ANYTHING towards transportation (AGAIN).
Nasty has since, complained to her dad, SO’s XFIL (who has custody/parental rights of XSD) about how horrible SO is to her (taking her money (CS) and not letting her claim the Skids on taxes, not being concerned about her happiness, not chatting on the phone with her, among other things – he’s not a man, don’tcha know)…well XFIL and Nasty have hatched a plan. As requested by Nasty, XFIL has laid out some “ground rules” for SO to follow should he be granted permission to see and spend time with XSD, at all.
SO, per said “rules” is not allowed to see or spend time with XSD unless it is “supervised” by XFIL or by Nasty herself. Nasty has decided that she wants to have “FAMILY TIME” :jawdrop: including her, XSD, the Skids & SO…she had included ME into that but now knows that I will not be in FL this year (she had PLENTY to say about that, but that’s for another blog). :sick:
SO now has two options…he can chose NOT to see XSD16 at all, or he can chose to see XSD16 while spending quality “FAMILY TIME” with Nasty &/or XFIL. This is not even taking into consideration the confusion that my resident Skids (SS9 & SD8) will have over the whole “family time” thing.
So…Nasty has decided she wants the Skids for 11 days (WOW…way better than her usual 4-6!!!) and to spend 3-4 of those days as a “family” with SO.
SO is PISSED, he doesn’t want to spend ANY time with Nasty but he wants to see XSD.
He actually asked me to post to see what you wonderful Stalkers have to say bout it…so please, fire away.
**A side note, I have promised NOT to give my opinion to him regarding Nasty and her colossal stupidity/narcissism and have so far, kept my word (MY GOD it is KILLING me!)