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O/T Lending club experience

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Has anyone ever used The Lending Club?

DH and I never looked at each others bills when we moved in together. He paid his I paid mine.

We have not looked at our finances and found that we share several credit cards in common.

So in other words if I have a Citi Bank card and am paying 21% interest. He has a Citi Bank Card and is paying 21% interest too. So Citi Bank loves us because we are getting double banged for interest. Looking to consolidate. (NOT ENOUGH EQUITY IN THE HOUSE TO PULL)

Denial to the 10th degree

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I have mentioned before that my DH is adopted. The "family secret" that everyone including DH new about but noone had the nerve to ever tell him as a child or adult that he was adopted. Because as you know DH family is :if we dont talk about it it isnt really happening and never did.

Checking out SD FB page which I do from time to time today and she has a picture of her and cousin's up. Now keep in mind because DH is adopted and one of just short of a dozen there are lots of cousins.

Then get the F out

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DH and I sitting on the deck. We call out SD16.

DH asks what class again that 6lbs of candy was used for? She quietly answers, I didnt need it for school. The conversation continues, you know the usually.

Your failing school (because your f'd up) your attitude sucks (because Daddy should have jerked a knot in your ass a lonnnnnng time ago) You speak to me like Im your buddy, Im not Im your Father...(and low and behold he is acting like one).