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The comments you get when you make a post about kids/skid VS the parent/significant other

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Submitted by wasabi on Thu, 11/24/2022 - 7:54pm

I've noticed a pattern on here and in real life. 
 

People are so quick to defend kids, give them excuses, not hold them accountable, etc. "it's just a kid" "they need X"

But when you say an adult does something (my s/o ) then everyone seems to agree with me. 
 

Kids ALWAYS get an excuse and are rarely held accountable. They suck lol. And so do the people who excuse their bs because of their age. 

It's a big privelage to be born a human.

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Submitted by wasabi on Thu, 11/24/2022 - 7:40pm

My mom and s/o were both really hurt when I told them I would save my dog over my skid(As a side note I'm annoyed at the poor skid poor guy comments). No I don't think she's more deserving of life over a dog just because she's a human and my s/o's little shnookums.The world makes the step parents out to be villains for not having this inherent connection to someone else's kid. Not to mention a skid who seemingly randomly chooses to be a dick to me and others whenever she wants.

Uphill battle

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Submitted by wasabi on Fri, 11/18/2022 - 5:04pm

Does anyone else feel like it's an uphill battle to

get their partners to see stuff? I do, he comes around eventually and admits it's something from his childhood that brought back bad feelings or his guilt of not being around for his daughter when he was in the military. But it's a big ordeal to get him to this point. He sees what he does and knows it's wrong but it's really stressful for me. I tell him this and he knows it , but it's just hard. People peg step parents as the bad people, and tell them

Blog 1: mattress cover

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Submitted by wasabi on Thu, 09/08/2022 - 2:20pm

I'm starting these just to vent/ make myself feel a bit better. 
 

Sent skid to other bio parent yesterday after an entire 4.5 days of skid from hell moments. This morning I woke up so excited to not have them, only to find the foam peices of the mattress topper under the skids bed( skid picked them off then hid them). Ungrateful little shit. 

This was the cherry ontop to a shitty week.

 

Frustrated with skid, ruins home environment weekly

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Submitted by wasabi on Wed, 09/07/2022 - 7:16pm

Damn, please tell me I'm not the only one(venting).

Skid ruins everyone's mood the second we have her, and I'm frustrated that my partner keeps giving them multiple chances for the same issues. I have to keep reminding partner about rules, when I don't they forget to reinforce a some rules. But when I remind my partner on a rule they want to reinforce they get mad: "I know, you don't need to kee reminding me". 

sometimes I feel like partner chooses not to because they aren't thinking logically but with their heart  

Who feels the same or similar?