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I am washing my hands of SS's

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Submitted by vgill on Tue, 12/15/2009 - 5:43am

I give up! Every effort I have made to help raise these kids in a safe and loving home has been thrown back in my face for over 4 years now, and I quit! I am not gonna be the nice guy anymore! My main concern is for my 4 children, don't get me wrong when (if) SS's decide they want to treat me with respect I will be there for them, but I have had enough of being treated like Sh*t!! I left my first marriage because my first husband was abusive, I will not let some little brats walk all over me, I will never live like that again!

Something needs to change and fast!!! This kid has to go!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 12/09/2009 - 7:56pm

Tonight was the same as last night, fucking mouth and attitude!! Dh was all over him and so was I but this kid doesn't get it!!! He threatened to call child protective services, DH said I'll get the phone and I said I'll get the number!! He still kept mouthing and he got his face slapped and he still kept mouthing!!! WTF!! He was sent to his room without his supper he didn't care he already snuck into the fridge and ate 3 pieces of cheese cake!! that was for dessert and then there weren't enough pieces for everyone else!! he is soo selfish!! I just don't know what to do!!!

I hate this kid!!! I have never hated in my life until now!

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Submitted by vgill on Tue, 12/08/2009 - 7:28pm

I know I shouldn't hate him but I do! SS12 is a lieing sneaky, manipulative,selfish,self important, lazy, mouthy little asshole!! I am just sick of having to do all the parenting here and BM does nothing and DH has given up!! I just don't want him here anymore!! He is in trouble for kicking out a $1000 door at our business and he is supposed to be grounded and working off the cost!! So BM takes him to an amusement park this past weekend and he was supposed to come home after school by himself and put in wood to help pay off the damages... what did he do..

I swear BM tries to sabatage every effort we make in raising her children!!!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Sun, 12/06/2009 - 4:14pm

MY SS's are grounded for destructive and disrespectful behavior (breaking windows and lying about where they are, so son and so forth... the list is too long) So what does BM do with them on her weekend... take them to an amusment park WTF!!!!!.... What do you do with a BM like this?? I am so tired of raising her children!!!! I wish she would just take them!!!! GRRRR!!! I just don't know what to do?!

Wooo Hoooo SKIDS FREE weekend!!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Sat, 12/05/2009 - 4:43pm

Oh how I love these weekends!!The stress goes out the door when they do!! I have 4 more kids at home but I love these weekends when I don't have to deal with the hate and disrespect they give me and DH. I just kind of wish every day was like this and I only had to deal with them every other weekend, or not at all. I just love my kids soo much they are sooo wonderful(not perfect though) they made mommy and daddy breakfast in bed this morning and they helped with chores today and gave us lots of hugs and kisses and love, skids aren't like that at all, not even to DH.

I am torn on what to do?!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 12/02/2009 - 7:48pm

I don't want them to live with me, I love them, but I don't want them here. I don't know why, SS12 is actually behaving now, but I fear this is just the calm before the storm. SS14 makes me want to tear my hair out, he has been living with BM for almost a year now, and I don't feel he is ready to come hme yet, not untill he can respect Dh and I, and the other children in this house. I have 4 other children to consider I love "all" of my children, but I sometimes need a break from all of them. But mostly I just need a break from my SS's.

I told you so!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 8:26pm

Stupid girl!!! My SS's 14 year old girlfriend has been sending naked photos of herself to SS's friends. I told BM to keep SS14 away from this girl, the 2 of them have been having sex and now she is sluting it up!! I seen this coming a mile away, but no one wants to listen to me, now Ss14 is crying in his room his heart is broken and he hates everyone except the little slut!! WTF!!!!Worst of all everything is always my fault, BM asked why didn't you say something if you knew she was like that.... I DID... how come no one listens???? OH What to do!!?????

What should I do???? a LITTLE ADVICE PLEASE!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Sat, 11/28/2009 - 7:28pm

What do you do with a mouthy 14 year old SS who Skips school to go have unprotected sex with his 14 year old girlfriend!!!????? I know what I feel like doing but what is the right thing to do. He currently lives with Bm and has for the last 10 months for the first time since he was 3 and his behavior has consistantly gone down hill. He is so disrespectful and argumentitive and quite hateful, Bm doesn't help she gives into him because she doesn't want to fight with him and DH does the samething sometimes.. I have never met a kid that liked to fight soo much.

What should I do???!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 11/27/2009 - 9:28pm

What do you do with a mouthy 14 year old SS who Skips school to go have unprotected sex with his 14 year old girlfriend!!!????? I know what I feel like doing but what is the right thing to do. He currently lives with Bm and has for the last 10 months for the first time since he was 3 and his behavior has consistantly gone down hill. He is so disrespectful and argumentitive and quite hateful, Bm doesn't help she gives into him because she doesn't want to fight with him and DH does the samething sometimes.. I have never met a kid that liked to fight soo much.

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