Hi. I am just curious if any of you go on vacations with your adult children without your spouse who has no children? My marriage is already strained because the adult SKs and I don't get along. My spouse says I bring drama & judgment causing them to walk on eggshells, which is why they don't want to be around me even on joint vacations or outtings. I say, they get away with disrespect, which is never called out towards me but I am told they give me what I give them. Also, I tell her that she treates like babies as she still washes their clothes, pays their bills and cleans after them.