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I couldn’t hold my tongue (Long)

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DH decided not to play chicken with the skids summer camp and resigned to just picking them up from BM. (Previous blog)

Pick up Wednesday went fine. 

Wednesday night I asked the boys if riding in the van was an important part of camp for them (BM was insisting it was) SS13 said I do not care, SS11 said I like it and we have to be responsible for our little sister. 

Summer Camp Continued.

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Basically I would like to ask all of you guys if we are handling this situation too harshly.... I just worry about the right decisions for the skids. 

Summary of previous blog: skids come wed-wed. BM wants them to come Friday - Friday (actually she didn’t even offer DH make up time right away) as they have summer camp that picks them up and drops them off to and from her house. 

So Dh contacted the camp and they said they could change the address Thursday and Friday but for half the day Wednesday it would be a headache. DH emailed BM and told her this. 

BM inserts herself into every visit.

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I haven’t updated the fallout of the court battle, haven’t had the emotional readiness to dive into it.

But in short, DH took her to court wanting the CO to be enforced with SS11 and for him to be put back in school. Long story short, DH won. BM accussed DH of a lot of things and a lot of it DH was able to show were false. During the proceedings BM withheld SS11 two times and at the last court hearing the judge actually said “if BM continues to do this the next step will be awarding DH full custody”. 

I don’t know what to think

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I’ve been deleting my blogs but to sum it up DH has started court proceedings to enforce access with SS11 and to have him put back into school. 

BM was served right before Easter and contested it, so DH will get papers from her Friday. Then he will respond and court is Tuesday. 

Anyways, she denied him Easter, it did fall on her time but the CO says it is supposed to be split.