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Need help please!

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My sister lives in Washington state. She has been married for 17 years and has a 13 year old DD. Her and her DD have been severely emotionally abused and it's now time that they need to leave. We are from the Midwest so ideally she wants to be able to move back with DD but has heard horror stories about custody arrangements in Washington. Does anyone know anything about how they can both get away?

Would a 4 year old say this?

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BM sent DH her standard email saying he needs to see SD4 more and included a "direct" quote from SD. I guess BM was talking to SD about how she talks to DH on the phone and trying to get SD to be more talkative so SD supposedly said, "if he doesn't want to see me, then I don't want to talk to him"

I call BS on a 4yo saying that. I think it's just BM being her manipulative self and trying to get DH to deal the the problem she created. (SD4's behavior is atrocious, BM treats her like her best friend and doesn't discipline or set any boundaries)

Facebook won

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For months now fb has been trying to get me to be friends with BM. I guess it thinks we should be friends because we have all the same friends since for some reason she is still friends with all of DHs family. I've learned to ignore that.

Anyway, 2 days ago I got a notification that BM accepted my friend request.
1. WTF!? What friend request?
2. Why the h*** would she accept it?

So we are friends now....

What could possibly be so bad?

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I'm not even sure where to start for this...

I guess I'll start with what just happened. DH got a voicemail on his cell from BM. (He blocked BM cell # about a year ago, BM and got a house phone also about a year ago. She called from her house for the first time since he blocked her cell) We have a house phone for her to call and DH's email goes to his phone so she can still contact him.