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trickster's picture

For months now fb has been trying to get me to be friends with BM. I guess it thinks we should be friends because we have all the same friends since for some reason she is still friends with all of DHs family. I've learned to ignore that.

Anyway, 2 days ago I got a notification that BM accepted my friend request.
1. WTF!? What friend request?
2. Why the h*** would she accept it?

So we are friends now....

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just.his.wife's picture

Unfriend, then BLOCK and you will no longer get those promptings of "you might know THIS person" about her anymore.

icecubenow's picture

RIGHT NOW....UNFRIEND and BLOCK HER! Absolutely no good can come from that. From experience...do it this minute!!

trickster's picture

I had her blocked for awhile but then I realized we were both commenting on mutual friends things and it looked ridiculous to everyone that could see both of us. I unblocked her so I could better avoid her. I don't really mind her being my friend, she is not crazy like most BMs and she can just see how cute my kid is.

trickster's picture

You guys are probably right but what will she think? As it is right now she thinks I sent her a request. I would really like to know how that even happened but I guess that's an issue with facebook and probably my cell phone. I really don't get why she accepted it. It's jus.t weird

Hanny's picture

Someone please explain how this happens without your initiating it. Can you tell me if someone has sent you a FB friend request, and you didn't deny or accept it, is there a chance that it just pops up again later, without that person initiating it?

trickster's picture

Something happened about a month ago and "I" sent requests to I think everyone on Facebook with BMs first name. I don't know what or how it happened but it did and random people became my friends. "I" also subscribed to some really weird stuff. So she may have been sitting on the request for a month or I just don't know. I do know I definitely didn't do it on purpose. Why on earth would I even want her to think that I wanted anything to do with her?

OhGolly's picture

I don't know how but it happened to me once with my sister in law. I never sent a request and out of nowhere received a notification saying "***** has accepted your friend request".

cant win for losin's picture

You have to send the friend request, if they dont accept or decline the request just sits there and waits. The little red numbered notification may be gone but the request is still there.
my question is how does one accept a request when supposedly the other party never sent one?!

Invisiblestepmom14's picture

Ok, I think Facebook is possessed! The same thing happened to me last week! Obviously, it was our BM and I got a notification that she had accepted my friend request! I never sent one! I did some research on google and I'm not the only one this has happened too!

I immediately unfriended her! I asked my DH if he had sent it to her, they are friends on fb, he said no! He was really scared I was going to blame him because he is the only other person that knows my password!

This is just freaky!!

justanothergurlNJ's picture

BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK. BM has had me blocked for YEARS and I liked it that way, one day I am on FB and her fugly face popped up on people you might know! OMG I blocked that shit faster then I could blink my eyes. Somehow and some way no matter what I do she still finds a way to stalk me and no every move I make on FB. At one point in time I used to write random statuses like pee'd today, or cleaned the cat poop, or the sky is blue lol. GOD I HATE that women swear if I ever hit the mega million I would give hat gold digging twat waffle 2 mill to hand over the kids and fall off the face of the earth!! Bitch would take it too.