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Today tops all days.....

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Submitted by theunseenstepmom on Tue, 11/05/2019 - 10:13pm

Today i finally had enough... enough of being disrespected by the ex wife, enough of hearing i am a sucky parent, and enough of hearing how much my kids dont belong to my husband. Today i lost it... I stood my ground and unfortunately stooped down to her level and gave this woman ALL her crap right back. I constantly bite my tongue and turn the other cheek so I dont add so much stress to my husband but how much crap can one person take???? So, just for today i decided to defend myself and my kids for once... Maybe now i'm really the evil hateful stepmom...

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Submitted by theunseenstepmom on Thu, 09/05/2019 - 9:12pm

I’ve literally screamed, cried, confided,etc... and yet I still feel like I’m not good enough. Not a good enough mom, not a good enough wife, and not a good enough step mom. My husbands ex wife and some of my in laws make me feel so small in this whole equation. I get called pathetic. A rebound. A piece of shit. Some times I get my hair done and nails done but of course it’s not ok and I put my own needs before my kids or my step child. But In reality I make sure everything is taken care of for them before I do anything for myself.