Ok here's the lowdown.. My boyfriend's 11 year old son is very manipulative. When you try to discipline him he is not having it at all . Ok here goes I had met my boyfriend about A year and a half ago. He had me meet his children right off the bat. I thought that was odd but said don't u wanna see if u like me first before introducing me to them. We'll I guess they liked me so I had spent way too much time with them where i feel he was using me to be the babysitter.