And I thought we did everything right...including all 4 kids (hubby has 3 kids, I have 1)in our decision to move in...get married. It has been 5 years now and things are terrible. When the SD's come to visit (14,17).... every other weekend or whenever they aren't too busy, it's like being a stranger in my own house. They sit in their room and don't say anything to anyone and it is a weekend of dread and loneliness. And it just keeps getting worse with BM filling their heads with crap. SS is 50/50 but he can be easily influenced by BM and SD's...I hate to think what is coming.